Turning 60 — A Message from Me to You

by Bonnie

Since you’ve found your way to this blog, you’re likely a woman in the vicinity of 60.

The Downside

Perhaps you’re feeling apprehensive, troubled, or concerned about being 60. You might feel stuck in a life that’s no longer exciting to you and not seeing a future to really look forward to.

woman pulling hair out

 Sixty can be a bit jarring. There’s something about that number.

 I understand.

Sixty was the first time I was ever bothered about my age. I even had a few moments wondering if I could hide or lie about my age. My reaction shocked me.

I thought 60 was old and I did not want to be old. Nor did I want anyone else to think I was old.

Our culture’s messages are so negative about aging. Especially for women. It’s not surprising that we fear becoming old, invisible, cast aside, unwanted, marginalized.

But life isn’t over at 60.

The best is not behind you.

I’m not saying la la, no problem, everything is great, you’re going to live forever, nothing will change.
There is inner work to be done, stuff to face and deal with. There are changes ahead that may be challenging.

And there’s hope and possibility.

You can still have peace of mind, joy, and purpose. You can still live the full, wonderful life you desire.

If this appeals to you, I hope you’ll stick around and become part of this village of women who want to create lives they love in their 60s and beyond.

What about you? Click on Comments below, scroll down, and write away. Tell us about your experience of approaching or turning 60.

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51 Bonnie February 7, 2013 at 3:47 pm

Hi, Betty, and welcome! Thanks for your kind words about what I’m doing here at Savoring Your Sixties. You made me laugh saying your mom got your birth year wrong. I haven’t heard that one before. :)

52 Roseann July 21, 2013 at 5:09 pm

I’m feeling sad about turning 60.
When my 50th birthday approached, I felt amazing, confident, I looked great, with no surgical help, dating someone 17 years younger, great job, owned a nice home, owned a Harley, I felt on top of the world….then…my life has changed over the past 9 1/2 years, I moved back in with my ex, I have my place on the market, I loved ‘my space’, beautifully decorated…I feel peace when I walk in there and angst when getting it ready for a real estate showing…
There’s a part of me I miss, the confident person I was earlier in my 50s,
I have wonderful sons, daughter in laws, grandchildren, but still I feel I’m missing something…I know people change over the years, but not this much, now I work, I come home, I clean, cook, I don’t feel the ‘zest’ or excitement I used to have..I feel like I’m going through the motions..I’m starting to feel old…I have good days and bad days…the bad days are I feel old…
I have told myself I am not going into my 60s (January 2014) with these feelings…but I don’t know were to start…I’ve searched the web and books for answers, something to give me an aha to the way I need to get myself back on track, but theres nothing but, go for walks, read books, learn a new language…make new friends, drive a different way to work…I need to dig deeper than that…..I’m scared that these feelings won’t go away and I’ll be 80 years old thinking the same way and life is passing me by.

53 Judy July 21, 2013 at 8:45 pm

Roseanne, been there and done that….. Just turned 60 back in February and I will tell you the truth. Approaching 60 was the worst feeling. I too felt great at 50. Fifty never bothered me a bit. But, as I began to think of turning 60, I began dreading it and feeling old. This started a couple months before my birthday. Then the big day came and went and I got to tell you…it’s just a number. I don’t even think about it much any more. I realized how lucky I am to be in relatively good health..no serious problems and I am reminded how good The Lord has been to me. He brought me this far and he will take me the rest of the way… Sounds like you have a wonderful family. Maybe you need a hobby. I like photography. And I enjoy my computer / Facebook and catching up with old friends. I also enjoy reading and Bible study. I have some great church friends. Find something you enjoy and jump right into it and count yourself lucky to have come this far. You have a lot more years to shine!!

54 Bonnie July 22, 2013 at 8:18 pm

Hi, Roseann!

I’m sorry you’re feeling sad about turning 60. It sounds like you’ve had some tough stuff to deal with in your 50s and I see how that could make it tough to look forward to your 60s.

You say you’re “going through the motions” without “zest. Could there be something physical going on? Might you be depressed? This might be worth checking out first. Then, if you’re still stuck and not making progress on your own, you might consider hiring a coach or seeing a counselor to help you “dig deeper.”

Wishing you all the best!


55 Bonnie July 22, 2013 at 8:20 pm

Judy, thanks so much for your comments here. I hope Roseann sees them. I’m glad you made it through the 60s knothole and realize how blessed you are. “You have a lot more years to shine.” Love that!

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57 Bonnie August 6, 2013 at 7:47 pm

Thanks! Glad you liked it.

58 cynthia August 23, 2013 at 2:32 am

Hi Bonnie,Im Cynthia ! thankyou for your shared thoughts to us young ladies,well i would like to think im still very young,but coming back to your thought,HOW TRUE !! i will be sixty the 17th October of this year and yes must agree with you,I am faced with the very same stuff you mention,like ooowh im getting old and what am i gona do ,since Im a divorcee and have not met anyone yet,my childrens all married and out of the house,so I do agree theres so many questions,many challenges that im facing and to be honest it does get the better of me most of the time.Thankyou once again for all the beautiful messages i’ve just read from all the young ladies !!! Cynthia

59 Bonnie August 23, 2013 at 9:34 am

Hi, Cynthia! You’re welcome and thank you for your kind words about this site. Happy Early Birthday to you! What are you doing to celebrate this occasion?

60 cynthia August 26, 2013 at 12:57 am

hi Bonnie,thankyou so much for your response,I dont have anything planned but I believe it will be the best ever celebration!! Will chat to you some more a bit later regarding this special day! have a blessed one.

61 Bonnie August 26, 2013 at 9:32 am

Thanks, Cynthia. I look forward to hearing more later.

62 Pam November 9, 2013 at 5:43 am

I just subscribed…so glad there is a place where turning 60 (which I will be doing this November 12) has some guidelines attached to it. It is definitely a challenge to think about, especially being on my own. My two children are grown; one is married & the other will be married soon. We once shared a very close relationship & now that has changed as well. Their Dad passed away early in their lives (10 years ago) and having to be both mother and father was a job that was very difficult but my son and my daughter always let me know how much they appreciated everything I did.
Now, I am on the sidelines of their lives…I am not their priority any longer. A distance has developed with both, but especially with my daughter.
Turning 60 is a gift; I am alive & I am healthy of which I am very grateful. It is also confusing, scary, nerve-wracking, lonely and very transformational, as if I am being called to totally release everything I have known and been in the pasl. If one does not live or share a relationship with a spouse or significant other, it can be isolating.
I look forward to being part of this community and I hope those of you out there that have experienced what I am experiencing right now will share some words of wisdom.
Blessings to all,

63 Bonnie November 11, 2013 at 5:22 pm

Hello, Pam, and welcome! An early Happy Birthday to you!

Yes, 60 can be challenging with the losses, the changes in relationships, and the shifts inside us as well as in our bodies. And I see that it’s easier to face some of this if you have a good primary relationship. Still, alone or in partnership, I do see many women who love their 60s and I hope you’ll be one of them. Recognizing the gifts you have in being alive and healthy is a great start!

All the best to you,

P.S. If you haven’t already done so, you might like to join us at http://www.savoringyoursixties.com/facebook

64 cynthia flanagan November 12, 2013 at 4:37 am

hi Bonnie,i could not let this moment pass,without letting you know about my 60th birthday party.If you will remember I had shared with you a bit of my background and that I did not want to spend money and time on people who did not appreciate me,Well matter of fact,my eldest daughter and her husband insisted we go ahead with a celebration.We booked a venue,( oakdale club ) I had the privilege of inviting 60 people as my children offered to pay the bill for me,this amount includes some of the people in my family that was real nasty with me.Allow me to also mention throughout my difficult times with relationships I managed to keep my calm and not let anyone unsettle who I am as a woman also as a believer.I will always try and remember a scripture in the bible which has come to mean so much to me and I quote …GREAT PEACE HAVE THEY WHICH LOVE THY LAW AND NOTHING SHALL OFFEND THEM,this scripture carries so much weight in the spiritual realm ,it also comes with a strong confirmation from God that he will be with us no matter what we face in life.All the blessings that I had received from 16th Oct up till Sunday 10/11/2013.Apart from these gifts I happen to celebrate my birthday with two party’s one for all friends and family and one for all my nephew and nieces.Now is this just not the way God works..he blesses us even though we face real trying times.Coming back to broken relationships in my family,Praise God!! without me having to prove my sincerity in the matter at hand,relationships have been restored thats been shattered for a couple of years,another thought that struck me so forcefully is the fact that God at times want us to step back and see how he will vindicate any situation we face.So indeed I had a Wonderful 60th birthday celebration,that Im faced with the really of getting on in years is a fact,the up side of all this is that the Best could still be awaiting me as a single divorced woman.Thankyou for taking the time to read my mail.Thankyou also to everyone on this site that makes reading everyones comment including yours such a wonderful journey. Cynthia

65 Kathie November 12, 2013 at 4:46 am

Good for you, Cynthia! I turned 60 in February. I wasn’t sure how I would feel either. I have been married for 30 years, being separated for the last 3. I am in a different job position where I work and, I just bought the condo I had been leasing this past August. I, too, felt very alone & hated the thought of being a “single” woman again, especially at THIS age!! BUT………..through the help & support of my 2 sons & best friend, all I can say is “I’ve come a LONG way, baby!”……I am embracing my 60’s and look at it as starting a new, wonderful chapter in my life. I have become stronger and more independent than I ever, ever imagined I could be! So, hold your head high, take a good look at the woman you have become because of all the trials & tribulations you have experienced over the years & rejoice!! The best IS yet to come!!

66 Bonnie November 12, 2013 at 10:55 am

Cynthia, what great news! Thanks for letting me know that your birthday celebration turned out to be a wonderful one. I’m very glad for you.

67 Bonnie November 12, 2013 at 10:57 am

Thank you, Katie, for this exuberant, inspiring message! It’s great to hear you’re doing so well after some tough times. Good for you!

68 Annemarie December 1, 2013 at 8:10 pm

I turned 60 years in August 2013. It was a shock . I had been dreading it for a while. When I turned 50 , I made a huge plunge. I got separated, divorced and remarried. At first I thought it was the worst thing I had done but as they years moved by it became so much better. I settled into my new life, my new country and my new husband. I loved the change. My only regret is that I was unable to see my children and grandchildren as they lived so far away. I thank God every day for my reasonably good health. The last 10 years have been the best and I want to do everything within my power to try and leave it the same.

69 Bonnie December 2, 2013 at 1:04 pm

Annemarie, thanks for your comments here. I hear you about dreading 60. I hope you’ll soon find it really IS just a number. How wonderful that the changes you made at 50 turned out so well!

70 Jackie C January 22, 2014 at 4:25 pm

I’m turning sixty on January 31st, actually next Friday…and I’m feeling really depressed.. I have been getting very sick, more aches and pains than ever, fever, groin pain, nauseated, headaches, being forgetful, not wanting to do anything and crying… etc etc…I’m thinking its because I am turning 60. I hope this is a short thing happening and it will pass…I have my own place, bought a condo a few years ago, but I have also been alone without a partner for like 18yrs, and have no desire to ever be with a man. My daughter and her hubby and baby girl just moved in with me last April, and I’m still feeling like this…not liking anything about myself lately.

71 Joyce January 24, 2014 at 5:08 am

I came across this site and just had to submit my thoughts. I turned the big 60 in June of 2013 and it was really ok. I arranged my own gathering because I was selective in my invitations. I have been looking back at my life and have to say that it has gotten easier. I have raised two daughters and have one grandchild who stays overnight every Friday night with us. Like most of you I had experienced many sad times in my life with the loss of parents and two brothers at the young age of 52 so I tell you that life is precious.

I am more at peace these days and I feel more comfortable to say how I feel. My husband recently wanted to purchase me a brand new car and the ‘old’ me would not allow that but the ‘new’ me said “oh yeah, and make it a happy blue colour”.

I have let my hair go gray this year and this turned our really well. I like it and it’s all about me these days. LOL I have arthritis and glaucoma but these are very manageable. Heck, I am cruising and crossing things off my bucket list. Swam with the dolphins with my granddaughter last month and that was absolutely amazing. Zip lining was great and parasailing was magnificent. So many things to enjoy and I want to try them all before my little body is not so co-operative.

I am still working part time because I enjoy the time out of the house. It also helps to pay for some of these extra activities my husband and I enjoy. He has been retired for 7 years now and I call him the “kept man”. I don’t know how things will be when I am 70 or 80 (hoping to get there) so I will concentrate on the here and now.

72 Bonnie January 24, 2014 at 4:13 pm

Hi, Jackie! Happy Almost Birthday! I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling so much. It could be something more than just turning 60 going on. Given what you’ve said, I’m thinking it might be good for you to see your doctor or a mental health professional. Please take good care of yourself and let me know how you’re doing. You’re welcome to email me if you prefer.

73 Bonnie January 24, 2014 at 4:17 pm

What a wonderful story, Joyce! Reading what you wrote made me smile. Thanks for inspiring us about how great life can be after 60. Love your attitude and what you’re doing!

74 DANA BEHM February 15, 2014 at 1:32 pm

I am 60!! It doesn’t bother me, but i don’t know how to identify my self anymore. I certainly don’t feel like I am 60 but now what. I had been a single mother and raised my children for many years, put myself through nursing school and am now very alone feeling. I am so glad that my kids are all on their own and building on their families and careers. But what do I do now? I planned marrying( but now divorced), having kids (4) and becoming a nurse ( now for 21 years). But I never made any plans for later in life and now here I am !! I struggling with not feeling depressed and down, but I just can’t figure out what to do? I hope I can get some imspiration from you and your readers!

75 Bonnie February 15, 2014 at 3:00 pm

Hi, Dana! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and experiences here. Not knowing how to identify yourself. Not having made plans for later in life. Struggling with your feelings. Not knowing what to do. Many women in the neighborhood of 60 can relate to all of that. You are definitely not alone!

I hope you’ll find some inspiration here. You might also want to join us on http://www.savoringyoursixties.com/facebook if you haven’t already done so.

76 Linda March 5, 2014 at 5:57 pm

I to have had a hard time dealing with turning 60, it just sounds so old. Fifty was fabulous, but will 60 be as great ? I still look pretty young and no one believes I’m really 60 which is great. Trying to deal with things the best I can and keeping it positive.

77 Kathie March 6, 2014 at 4:27 am

Hi Bonnie, I celebrated my 61st birthday last month. After going through a rough, personal issue (30 year marriage fell apart), I had made up my mind that upon turning 60, my sixties would turn out to be some of the best years of my life. I entered the “scary” online dating world, and met some nice men. In November of last year, I went on a breakfast date with a 63 year old widower. We hit it off right away, and now, 4 months later, we are still dating (exclusively!) and having a ball! We are even going on a cruise to Bermuda the 1st week of May! Did I EVER think I could find happiness again…..especially at MY AGE……NO!!!! But, I did. I became confident, independent and just tried to be myself. I embraced my 60’s with a new, positive attitude and treasure each & every day. We come into this new decade of life with a lot of experience & knowledge and we STILL have a lot to offer! So ladies, don’t despair………..this could be the best time of your life!


78 Bonnie March 7, 2014 at 3:00 pm

I hear you, Linda. I loved my 50s and thought 60 sounded old (and sometimes it still does!) Dealing with it as best you can and being positive about it — that’s a good way to go. All the best to you!

79 Bonnie March 7, 2014 at 3:02 pm

I love this, Kathie! What a great story! Thanks so much for sharing it with us.

80 shawn April 11, 2014 at 2:29 pm

I am turning 60 this year. Not upset at the thought, just conflicted. I don’t know if I should feel the need to wind down or continue to put effort into a working career. I can’t find anyone to talk to because my friends just want to “retire” — whatever that means. They sure don’t seem to think much about it. Is it really time to move to a next “chapter”?

81 Bonnie April 12, 2014 at 8:37 am

Hi, Shawn! I think the time to move on to the next chapter is different for each of us. It’s not so much what “should” you do as what do you want to do.

82 Elaine Coleman April 22, 2014 at 9:12 am

Never got over 60. I’m ashamed, embarrassed and I do t know what else. No other age has bothered me but 60. Can’t get past it.

83 Kathie April 22, 2014 at 11:16 am

Hi Elaine, I am so sorry to hear that you feel that way. Why do you feel ashamed & embarrassed? First of all, 60 is JUST a number!!!! Do you realize (unfortunately) how many women don’t even MAKE IT to this age! This is surely an accomplishment in itself!!!! Secondly, think of all the experiences in life & knowledge that you have gained over the years that you can share with other women in our age group and younger. Look in that mirror and see the strong, beautiful woman that you have become. We have worked hard & long to get to this point in our life and you should be proud of that fact. Please try to concentrate on the positive side of your sixties and know that you are entering a wonderful, new decade that you should be celebrating! I am 61 and darn proud of it…………you should feel the same about turning 60! Hold your head high & embrace what life has to offer! We are truly lucky to be here!

84 Bonnie April 23, 2014 at 9:16 am

Elaine, I’m sorry to hear you can’t get over 60. I know that certain circumstances as well as some women’s beliefs about themselves can make this time especially difficult. If it’s been a while since you’ve crossed that threshold perhaps it’s time to get some professional help in dealing with this. It would be so sad for you to spend your life stuck in this ashamed and embarrassed place.

Kathie, thanks for reaching out to Elaine and sharing your perspective and experience on this.

85 Karen August 5, 2014 at 7:52 pm

I am a few hours away from being 60. I am not looking forward to it. As today went by I realized I was very anxious, emotional and I guess full of dread. I have a lot to be thankful for. A wonderful husband for 37 years, two children and I just became a grandmother 11 months ago. I should be counting my blessings or at least concentrating on those things right now. Basically, I always see the glass half empty. I want to believe that I have some good years left. I have retired and I don’t have enough activities to keep me busy. I’m waiting for some type of revelation to hit me but in reality I know I have to make things happen. I look forward to hearing from others going through the same journey right now.
I’m grateful to have found this website and hope to be encouraged as well as be an encouragement to others. Thank you for your website, Bonnie.

86 Bonnie August 6, 2014 at 12:30 pm

Happy Birthday, Karen! I’m glad you found your way here.

I, too, dreaded turning 60. And all that I had to be grateful for didn’t make any noticeable difference. I hope getting through the knothole of the actual day will help you as it did me.

It is indeed possible to have many good years after 60. That’s a fact! It doesn’t happen for everyone and it’s definitely possible. As you know, it’s up to you to make that happen with your attitude and your actions.

Many readers of this blog have also struggled with turning 60. One of them, Elaine, posted a response to you which, in one of those frustrating internet mysteries, somehow disappeared from here. She wanted me to share it with you:

I know how you feel. I’m 63 and turning 60 was and still and is traumatic. I’m embarrassed when I have to go to the doctor and the sheet says 63 year old female. I used to think about it every day, I don’t now unless I’m asked by the pharmacy or doctor’s office. I feel for you- it’s tough. But what can we do about it? Hang in there. It use to be torture for me everyday. Now I only think about it in those two instances. It hasn’t gone away but I don’t think about it nearly as much.

87 Ann August 16, 2014 at 6:16 pm

Thank you Bonnie! I turned 60 last month and found that I was surprised that it didn’t (seem to) bother me as much as I expected it would. I’d always rather be in my early 30’s 40’s 50’s 60’s than the later years for some reason. I feel like I’m a young 60 something.
But every time I don’t feel agile or energetic, I just feel old, whereas I used to just assume I can get in shape as needed. I hope that’s still true and I exercise regularly with wonderful women.
However, my co-workers are much younger, I feel like I could easily be dismissed as old.
Happy to have found your blog! – Ann

88 Bonnie August 19, 2014 at 9:44 am

Hi, Ann! Glad you found your way here. Good for you for exercising regularly. That’s so very important!

89 Jean September 19, 2014 at 4:08 am

Well, I turned 60 in 2012 in June. “WOW look at me I’m 60! I felt great and I look like I’m in my 40’s. From August to December that all changed, I discover that I had a 10cm fibroid and I needed a total hysterectomy in December. I was under a lot of stress with the cost of this operation, no health insurance, working at a part time job and not very much money. I got around paying for my surgery. I did research on having a hysterectomy and ask a lot of question which impressed my doctor because not many of his patients question on how it was done. December 10 came and I had my surgery and in a few days I was home. That didn’t last long, a week later I needed corrective surgery in the same spot and I needed a mesh. My second stay was very stressful because I had to let each layer of my skin to heal, I was told that I had type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure
and high cholesterol. I’m on medication and have to watch what I eat. The surgeries has changed me so much, I feel like my body is slowing down, I think about how many years I have left and dying. I have some really good days when I enjoy myself and keep busy but the dark days would come and I start thinking how old I am. I feel lost sometimes, it’s too late to start again, can’t think of what I want to do with the rest of my life. I’m not planning on killing myself so don’t worry about that. I am seeing a counselor about my problems. Has anyone have any ideas of how to get out of this rut that I’m in?

90 Kathie September 19, 2014 at 5:21 am

Hi Jean,

I’m so sorry that you are dealing with some health issues. A hysterectomy is a tough surgery. I had mine in 2000 at age 47 (it was a total hysterectomy due to fibroids). The recovery was difficult and I felt so tired & run down. And I was only in my 40’s!!! I was very glad that I had it done, but it definitely changed my life………..slowing down, some weight gain, hormonal changes (loss of libido)…………In my late 50’s, I too started on blood pressure and cholesterol meds. It is difficult, but, you have to try to look at the positive side of things. You are 62 now and you should feel proud of that! You are NOT old………..I am sure you have made it through some tough times in your life and you come into this decade bringing with you a wealth of knowledge & experience that you have gained along the way. Everyone has their ups & downs, and sometimes, the “downs” are difficult to deal with. I know…………I have had my share of them, believe me. But………..I try to look around at those less fortunate than me and put things into perspective. I concentrate on what I am grateful for………..my 2 grown sons, their wives and my precious, almost 4 year old grandson Lucas……….who seems to think I am the next best thing to Santa Claus!! ;) Deciding to seek counseling is good……….you definitely need someone to talk to about how you are feeling and not hold it in. Sometimes, just getting it out in the open helps to get you back on track. I hope things start to get better for you & know that you are not alone. Take care, Kathie

91 Ann September 19, 2014 at 7:14 am

Jean, First (congrats on looking 40), there’s nothing like health issues to challenge our optimism, and I’m touched that you reached out to us – your sisters in our sixties – to share your thoughts. I’m so grateful to Bonnie for creating a space for us. And as Bonnie said, it is about perspective and when I don’t feel well ( I have health issues as well) I know how dark things can look. The truth is that you are in recovery, you are NOT on a downward slide, you are on a new learning curve to manage what you hadn’t planned for. You can (and I suspect will) get strong and healthier than you were before. That means feeling better than before surgery. Yes, it’s possible! Allow yourself your real feelings of grief and keep reaching out. If counseling is available, it can be really, really helpful. Holding your hand as we move through the 60’s – Ann

92 Bonnie September 25, 2014 at 12:10 pm

Jean, Kathie, and Ann, I’m so glad to see your conversation here, reaching out and connecting with each other.

Jean, I’m sorry to hear you’re having some health challenges. I know those can be very difficult to deal with, both the physical issues as well as their emotional affect. I’m glad to hear you have good days and that you’re seeing a counselor. Kathie and Ann have offered kind support as well as good perspective and some excellent suggestions. I hope you’ll take their words to heart.

How to get out of your rut?

1) I’ll ditto the power of gratitude. Would you be willing experiment with writing three things you’re grateful for each evening? Do this for a month or more and see what difference it makes.

2) Also, make a list of what lights you up (what you love, what energizes and enlivens you) and start doing more of that every day. Even small things that light you up can make a big difference.

If you search the articles on this site you can get more information about both of these suggestions.

Wishing you all the best,

93 Sandy September 29, 2014 at 5:24 am

I’m turning 60 in a few months. I really don’t know where I fit anymore. It’s lonely, I have no friends and no hobbies. I have a son and a daughter-in-law that I have a very complicated relationship with that makes me sometimes angry and sometimes just sad. I have lived in the same town all my life. My husband and I flirt with the idea of packing up and moving to another state. We are both unhappy where we currently live. Fear stops us. We think we are to old to start a new. We fear leaving drs that we trust and being in a place that we are totally unfamiliar. As it is we have no one to rely on or help us. We just keep spinning in our thoughts and getting no where, just frustrated. Any suggestions you might have would really be appreciated. Thank you.

94 Bonnie October 7, 2014 at 4:44 pm

Hi, Sandy! Turning 60 does seem to get many of us thinking about where we are in life, geographically and otherwise. Some people who relocate at this time of life are thrilled by the results; others not so much. It obviously depends on the people and their situation.

If you and your husband are both unhappy where you live . . . well, that’s big, isn’t it? What could you do to change that? What would you choose to do if you were going for joy rather than avoiding fear? What small actions could you take to test/try out moving? If you keep doing just what you’re doing now, what does your life look like in 5 to 10 years and how to you feel about that? If you took a blank sheet of paper and drew your vision for your life the next 5 to 10 years as though anything were possible, what would it look like?

Lots of questions, I know. Believe it or not, I could come up with more. :) Maybe considering one or more of these questions will help you get unstuck and moving towards what your truly want. All the best to you.

95 Kat October 9, 2014 at 8:52 pm

Well, I cannot believe I will turn 60 a year from now.

I feel 30, and know I look like my late 40s. I never smoked and stayed out of the sun.

It is just really weird because I feel no different than 30. I almost cannot believe it. Just a bit ago, my mother was 60. How did I get to be 60?

96 Bonnie October 10, 2014 at 4:17 pm

Hi, Kat! Thanks for stopping by and adding your comment. Believe me, you are not alone in wondering how you got to be 60!

97 heidi January 26, 2015 at 1:07 pm

I am scared to death of turning 60 and I’m not sure why?,I have NEVER been bothered by birthdays before but this one has got me panicked. HELP!!!!!!!!

98 Bonnie January 27, 2015 at 2:37 pm

Hi, Heidi! I do understand; I had similar feelings before I turned 60. And once I got through that knothole, the worst was over for me (and for many other women too). If you haven’t already done so, sign up for my ezine and read the free ebook you’ll get when you do that. Also check out the “Helpful Articles” on this page, http://www.savoringyoursixties.com/new-here/

99 David Lloyd March 1, 2015 at 12:47 am

I wrote the following blog entry for my wife, who is about to turn 60, and has greatly inspired me by the way she has turned this into an opportunity, rather than something that will weigh her down.
“Looking the devil in the eye – An Ode to Adva”

100 Bonnie March 1, 2015 at 3:29 pm

What a lovely tribute to your wife, David. She sounds like an amazing woman. Thank you for sharing this.

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