Somehow from the deep pain of that Allende found great wisdom, wisdom I found so touching I wanted to share it with you.
“The pain of losing my child was a cleansing experience. I had to throw overboard all excess baggage and keep only what is essential. Because of Paula, I don’t cling to anything anymore.
Now I like to give much more than to receive. I am happier when I love than when I am loved. I adore my husband, my son, my grandchildren, my mother, my dog, and frankly I don’t know if they even like me. But who cares? Loving them is my joy.
Give, give, give — what is the point of having experience, knowledge or talent if I don’t give it away? Of having stories if I don’t tell them to others? Of having wealth if I don’t share it? I don’t intend to be cremated with any of it!
It is in giving that I connect with others, with the world and with the divine. It is in giving that I feel the spirit of my daughter inside me, like a soft presence.”
~ Isabelle Allende
When I read this, I was particularly caught by the idea of loving even when I don’t know if the other person likes me. In the loving is the joy.
What about you? Anything in what Allende says speak to you?